Monthly Archives: February 2011

DesteniIProcess Support: Moving through Resistances while Blogging/Vlogging

This is a support Blog for those who are experiencing difficulty moving through resistances as they Blog and Vlog in general or specifically within the DesteniIProcess. If you find that your mind as ‘BackChat’ is constantly telling you through thoughts, feelings or pictures that you are not changing, not ‘feeling’ better, not moving or that you are not experiencing yourself differently – then here are some basic guidelines to identify whether you are in a point of self-doubt as self-sabotage or if the points you are self forgiving require further direction as a point of specific self-correction. The point of the entire process is for us to apply ourselves within the material and to document our day to day experiences and any realisations we have.

If one for example starts doubting whether you should be in the DesteniIProcess due to you not changing – then the point here is that you are not questioning whether you should be a part of the DIP – however you ‘feel’ that your blogs and vlogs are ineffective because you are not experiencing any change because you are fearing actual letting go and changing. This fear as you are able to see for yourself is not real – it is an accepted role you have taken on in your life due to who you are with and who and what you fear losing if you change. You might find that you don’t feel you are effectively moving through the points because you are dependent on someone in a relationship. The Mind will tell you through ‘BackChat’ that you or your blog/vlogs are ‘not good enough’ or that ‘the process does not work’ – however what is really happening is that you are actually not willing to change as you are dependent on and have accepted yourself as you are due to survival linked to ego, money or a point of self-acceptance existent currently within your world. The hardest part I found when faced with letting go of my past definitions of ‘not being good enough and being stupid’ so that I could accept me – was actually… letting go of the self-definition of ‘not being good enough and feeling stupid’. Therefore for our self forgiveness to be effective we have to make the decision to let go of those self definitions within realising they are not who we are and are not what is best for all/ourselves. If you do not yet see Self within this ‘Equality Equation’ then your self-forgiveness is useless. So I suggest the following:

Make a list of all the points you have been working on over the last few months. Then next to each point you write down where within the point have you not been able to stop and self forgive. Then you write down why you have not let go and forgiven and self corrected. Here you will start observing an interesting point – where you are holding onto points/the past because you are in conflict with your current role as you have accepted it within your world. Then the next step is to observe: is direct change as self correction required to change a pattern or does a pattern simply require daily writing as support – such as:

I Accept me
I Am here
I stop limiting myself
I love me
I Support me
I Direct me in all situations as what is best for me, as that which is best for all
I Breath
I stop Self definition according to people/things and events outside of me, I stand here the same always as Self-Acceptance in Self Support.

These self corrective statements – which you could call ‘affirmation’s I have had to speak and write at some stage daily for months – as a point of re-programming. This information is specifically in relation to self-definitions you are de and re programming within yourself. The other patterns where you actually have to stop participating in your world such as:

allowing abuse
allowing abusive conversations
allowing abusive relationships
compromising around people and places

– these environment/people specific patterns you will only change by stopping and not participating – which becomes part of your common sense development. This is your personal process because only you in your self-honesty will be able to make the decisions necessary to stop accepting and allowing (self) abusive patterns within your world.

First observe the above mentioned points and perhaps this can become something you can do short blogs or vlogs about. A suggestion – take it slow – take one point you observe and vlog or blog about it – breathe and do the next vlog when you are ready to apply the next point such as breaking a pattern through non participation/breathing. Then this allows you to make a few Vlogs because one pattern will consist of many environmental factors/triggers points/memories/feelings/thoughts/physical behaviors. Explore one pattern to its fullest and go as deep as you see. Each Vlog can for example be about one point within a pattern:

1. Abusive friendships: The words spoken
2. Abusive friendships: What my friends represent about me
3. Abusive friendships: How I created the friendship as a pattern from my childhood
4. Abusive friendships: When I allow anger within friendships
5. Abusive friendships: Self Forgiveness
6. Abusive friendships: Self Correction and Self-responsibility

Remember not to use people’s names -the vlogs are an overview of your experience within the pattern. By you slowing the entire point down and opening a point up you are showing others how to do it.

Consumerism vs Common Sense

Consumerism by its own definition and in its essence means to consume things. It relies on a market which relies on people wanting and needing things. For people to want things the media has impulsed us op believe that what we require goes beyond physical necessity, to the unquenchable experience of ourselves to be more than this physical existence. Therefore consumerism aims at the energy body – meaning, that the media serve as the center through which humans are impulsed to seek gratification and fulfillment on an energy level. Because energy like an orgasm can never fully be quenched as a living consistent expression as the physical – because energy dissipates – the human like a junky will seek more and higher ways of getting their energy fix. That is how the media which are used by the corporations will impulse people through pictures which resonate at a symbolic level. That is why you will never be satisfied. You might buy your new flat screen tv today, but by next month, you have forgot about the initial energy rush you felt based on how the new TV made you feel. When you purchased the new tv you were accessing resonant designs within yourself such as self-worth, self-value and self acceptance. We are symbols (a picture presentation of our pre-programing) resonating according to what symbols as pictures we interact with in our world. According to our pre-programmed design as who we have become as our current personality we will interact with the resonant symbols of objects and people according to how our design responds to the symbolic design of the object/person. According to this for example you will like something or dislike something or get a specific ‘feeling’ from an object/person while getting a different feeling when around the next object/person. These feelings are created through our resonances as they resonate according to how our living symbology resonates to the symbology of the object. Just like cogs in a watch that slot into each other causing movement and functioning.

Your resonant symbol therefore could be a ‘lack of self worth’ and the symbol of the flat screen tv is ‘worth due to acquiring this big flashy symbol in society’. Now you are faced with buying the flat screen tv and you start feeling good at the idea of this new tv. What you are experiencing is your resonances, resonating to the symbolic picture as the ‘flat screen tv’ as you have already programmed its symbolic worth within the system. So as humans we are taught by our parents that to have worth you must gain and accomplish things through doing things and participating in this world. Because we have grown up accepting this as our resonant living symbols, we are now ‘receptive’ to the flat screen tv resonating its symbolic worth and impulsing us to resonantly change ourselves to the point of feeling good when thinking of buying it and having it in our lounge. So then you buy the tv and now you feel good. The media functions according to pictures and how pictures make people feel. So there you have the key to how and why pictures, colours and the feelings you get from it is used so extensively by the media.
That is why all humans strive for external verification of self-worth. That is why we have become energy beings completely disregarding the fact that firstly we exist in the physical by the grace of the physical. If planet earth stops providing for our basic needs we are screwed. If the physical body stops breathing we are dead. We abuse the animal and plant kingdom who are currently in a position of providing for us. We abuse the gods of the physical who truly are providing for the physical. God does not provide for me – the physical reality does. Currently the physical reality as nature, plants, and the animal kingdom does so because we have forced it upon these beings. They did not have a say. Now we have an opportunity to align ourselves here as the physical, to be able to say we are one and equal here as this physical reality. To do so – and this I realise for myself – I stop worrying about energy and feeling good and being some enlightened masters of what I read in a book. The physical reality does not require special knowledge only applicable to energy – meaning: If you read about something and your react energetically – then you know you are busy with knowledge and information which is useless to this physical reality. The physical already functions at a level that we are not comprehending because we are too busy feeding the mind with energy. To stand one and equal to this physical reality as ‘god’ which provides for us, we have to start developing common sense and self-honesty in considering what is required for all to exist in the physical.
Participating in Energy: It is through the ‘energy body’ that we as humanity seek to have certain experiences. You see the energy body only moves in relation to things which we have given value to as our resonant symbology which exists as ideas separate from ourselves. Therefore energy can only move within you if you have just ‘had an experience/resonated with something’ and having an experience is like saying ‘this thing which I experienced’ caused me to attach a value to it based on what my parents taught me. When having any particular experience the mind remembers that I have labeled such experiences as good and will now generate energy for me through the resonances which is categorised as ‘feeling good’. This is how we designate the value to a symbol according to what we were taught by our parents/society. We avoid the bad feelings to get the good feelings and by accepting the definition of good and bad from childhood we have trained the mind through perceptions of things to respond to our world by either giving us nice feelings or bad feelings. This we have already created. Look at it for yourself. The more we allow the concept of consumerism for example the more we create points within our world that can give us good feelings and bad feelings. So not only are we completely fucking our planet and ourselves through increased consumerism and product creation – but we are also duplicating objects globally that cause us to react energetically. Our world becomes a ping pong table. Eventually everything in our world will have an energy signature for us and we won’t be able to move from point A to B without connecting to an energy point.

It is like walking through a sweet shop. As you walk down the aisles your eye catches each delicious chocolate. Every second that your eye falls on a chocolate you experience a tinge of delight and want. Our reality has become a chocolate shop. And the more our addiction grows to stimulate the more we have to create products to fill the blank spots in the world. Eventually this planet will look like a chocolate shop – each space of what was once nature for example will be lined with malls with big glass windows displaying products. And the bigger our need for self value the bigger the energy reaction will have to be. So that which we create will have to stimulate us extensively. Look at how the world functions now for example according to the secret mind. Things like rape 30 years ago would have been your more basic rape where a man traps a woman and rapes her. Now rape consists of internet gangs, rape porn, anime, rape literature and clubs that people belong to where you play rape games and depending on which club you belong to and how much money you have can even kill someone. Even rape itself has because increasing disgusting and has branched out to the crudest forms of expression. Everything in this world is compounding more and more as our needs for the ultimate energy experience increases.

So let us observe for example advertisements on television and in magazines/newspapers. Have you noticed how the ads used today do not represent the product in its actual simplicity/capacity? Now advertisers use colours, body behaviours, seductive or emotionally enticing words, sexual context/promiscuity and even the promise of absolute happiness. Advertising 40 years ago would have said ‘to properly clean your clothes use this washing powder. Nowadays they will have a sparkly eyed housewife with all kinds of behavioural manipulations going on with the use of very specific colours and wordings – promising you that as a successful person/woman this product is part of your ticket to personal success. The focus in advertising has shifted immensely in the last 50 years to more extensively impulse people through our hidden desires and needs, to buy more and consume. So the question then comes up – is this why scientists and psychologists do not actually support people in being self-directive?. Is that why science is circling around the same knowledge and information not telling people that Self has always been at the center of everything, and is therefore the solution to all deception? Is that why the field of psychology for example will imply a vast amount of guessing and abdicating to our chemical structure instead of self-responsibility?

Blame and Self-Responsibility

Blame and Self-Responsibility.

When reading the blog of myself or another and you react in anger – I suggest the following. Observe within yourself what it is that you reacted to. Did you react to me speaking about your religion or about a political factor? What was your reaction – did you react to what I wrote in anger, frustration, or did you feel an energy rise up from within your gut and up your spine which consumes you, resulting in angry thoughts towards me including swear words or death threats?
Here you have identified a mind possession based in wanting to protect yourself as your opinions. You will find that you are for example not even reading what I am saying, because your mind immediately went to your opinion on the matter and compared what I was saying to what you believe. Now you miss for example the context within which I am communicated which would be to question our reality to find solutions that are according to what is best for all. You now attack a word or a sentence within my blog because you are protecting your opinion.

This will often be the context within which I address world systems – to reveal and discuss the actuality of what we as humanity accept and allow. You do not actually require any specific ability, only self-honesty to ask the relevant questions, common sense to embrace what you realise and the self-will to be able to change you as the solution to the world problems. So when I am writing a blog I am sharing the simplistic equation of how this world functions. You and I are able to sit around a table and discuss how the world really functions and you will find that behind your opinions are the actual facts. In my Blogs I communicate about the actual actions and allowances of humanity as the direct causes, not something metaphysical which I am guessing at based on what I want it to be – based on my knowledge I accepted through what ‘society’ has accepted.
A suggestion for people who react to my blogs or to the blogs of someone who writes about the world and how we are responsible for everything we as humanity have always accepted and allowed – if you find yourself reaction – I suggest firstly note in relation to what you reacted. This indicates what it is that you hold onto as a point of self-value. Now ask yourself why your opinion has never changed the world and cannot stand as a practical solution for all to live? Why and how do we know that no opinion has ever served what is best for all? Because if that were the case – and your opinions deserved justification and recognition – then the world would not be in this situation. Your opinion would not be a thought which moved within your mind connected to energetic reactions as emotions and feelings and would in fact be a liveable practical solution which can be lived by all equally. Liveable solutions which consider what is best for all for example will not:
1. Support further designs of enslavement and illusion as religion, culture, class, polarity, division, ego, personality etc
2. Does not create separation in the being as the mind based on individualism and ‘freedom of choice’ which means ‘I want to be able to have this/do this’ – I am not worried about anyone else or the consequences of what I have globally.
3. Does not become a belief which is not a physically manifested point but rather something in the mind of the believer.
4. And is not dependent on your survival and contribution to the capitalist system.
You will find that many of your opinions you are firstly able to recognise are part of your personality through which you have learnt to survive in the world based on the requirement and movement of money.
So considering what is best for all, is to read someone’s writings from within the only context which is valid – stop deception and find liveable solutions for all to Live as the Physical as ‘what is best for all’. In my Blogs I will focus on writing about the world systems and how they are created and what they are there for. This is actually quite simplistic because all you require to do is be self-honest about why something is there, why people use it and what the consequences are for others, nature and the planet and what the outflows will be for the future of mankind.
Let us share insight into the current world systems, while observing our reactions to Fear of Loss of the world Systems.

Psychosocial development of Children

I am currently studying psychology and in my Child Development and Maturity course we are learning about the Psychosocial Development Theory of Erik Erikson.

He refers to the developmental stages of children which require the balancing of a positive trait to that of a corresponding negative trait. He proceeds to theorize that even though the positive trait should be predominate within the child, to some degree the negative is required as well. Because he claims, during this critical stage of a child’s development the child learns about basic trust versus basic mistrust. Within this he is saying that the child will learn to trust people in the world but at the same time be aware of dangers.

Now this theory itself opens a door to yet again explore the context behind which the world system itself functions. Within the theorizing of these Psychologists, Behaviourists and Psycho Socialists – one things stands out the most: They are not referring to the child developing an understand of the physical reality according to its physical laws, whereby for example walking onto a road is not safe because there might be cars and being hit by a car is dangerous or life threatening – or that drinking Rat poison will be detrimental to the physical. Here one could continue presenting examples in relation to the physicality of ourselves within the physicality of this reality.
What the Psychologists are supporting is the nature of our system as we have come to accept it. The nature of this world as the systems of the world that we as humanity have come to accept and allow is that of abuse, suffering, ego, starvation, separation, segregation, hate, comparison, class – but to mention a few. Therefore our reference point within what we are dealing with here if we are to consider what Psycho socialists like Erik are referring to – is that scientists are endorsing the polarity of have/have not, rich/poor/ easy/difficult, beautiful/ugly, good/bad as it exists in its manifested forms within the world today. Through Money as the generator of all human experiences we have created, generated and accepted polarity within its place and structure as it is currently supporting the money system. So for example we will within the existence of the money system accept the polarity of fat/thin – as a point of like/dislike based on wanting to be accepted by others in this world. Therefore we have become accustomed to growing up and teaching our children that to be accepted in this world you have to have money, a nice personality, good friends, nice belongings, a pleasant demeanor etc – not considering that the value we teach our children is that of polarity – that for us to be accepted in the world a person has to balance between two opposite polarities. If you want to be acceptable, thus accepting yourself you have to balance yourself in the system between the extremes of for example rich/poor, beautiful/ugly, accepted/unacceptable.

Therefore when the scientist/philosophers/psychologists speak of ‘children and people having to balance themselves between positive and negative qualities as an accepted form of development’ – know one thing – they are preparing people to become functional within the world system through inner conflict based in polarities. Once you accept yourself as polarity and that you have to balance you in relation to the existent polarities and friction points within the world – then you are trapped in and as the money system. The money system functions on self-doubt and through people attempting to ‘balance’ their lives. Therefore the capitalist system exists – through which people are constantly wanting to buy their happiness and buy a ‘good life’ in comparison to a ‘bad life’, which we have come to accept should exists at the other end of the polarity – because we already see these polarities existent within the suffering of others. If suffering and abuse in others did not exist, then we as humanity would not get up, go to work and participate in the money system. Therefore the money system exists on and of abuse, supported by the mind set of man because we have already accepted that life is about ‘the good times’ and the ‘bad times’ and psychology for example exists to encourage and train psychologists to train their clients in accepting life as self-abuse in the form of polarity.

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